The Food Is Destroying Masculinity

7 Years ago I became a vegan. I did it cold turkey the moment I read a research paper that detailed the link between the food we ate and how it affected the way we behave, the way we think, and how we feel. There’s an old cliche that you literary are what you eat, but many don’t understand how deep that statement actually goes. The number of people being diagnosed with both anxiety and depression are continuing to sky rocket, and most of us aren’t taken into account the depression and anxiety experienced by the animals that we’re eating right before they’re slaughtered. If we take the statement literal, that we are what we eat, can it not also be said that if we eat depression and anxiety that we can experience depression and anxiety? If we all had to watch a video showing exactly how the food sitting still in our supermarket actually got there, most of us would choose another option.

As I continued my research through the years I was led to plethora of information that was detailing exactly how the food we were eating, and it’s additives were turning the male dominant hormone Testosterone into the female dominant hormone Estrogen. Thus, it was affecting the way both men and women thought, behaved, and felt. We’ve all heard how irrational pregnant woman can behave when their bodies are producing the “pregnancy hormones”, but why haven’t we heard about how irrational all us can behave when the food we’re eating is literary altering and changing our hormones as well?

It’s no surprise that we have gang of women complaining that “men aren’t men anymore” just as we have a gang of men complaining that “women aren’t women anymore”. The food the majority of us are eating and the water we’re drinking is literary reengineering our hormones every hour of every day. It’s reengineering the way we think, the way we feel, and the way we respond to every day life.

We seem to think that our thoughts are us, but this isn’t true. The way we “feel” isn’t always genuine to who we are. Advertisers spending billions of dollars in research every year learning new ways to use visual stimuli to make us “feel” what they want us to feel so that we can buy their products. And they’re incredibly effective at this. The western worlds culture is consumption; we buy things we don’t need more than anyone else in the world.  We even go so far as to go into debt, just so that we can buy things we don’t need.  Are these truly our desires? Or are we being advertised to, and marketed to so effectively, that our subconscious is being supplanted with desires deep enough that they feel like they’re our own? The detergent you buy isn’t necessarily the one you like the most, it’s largely the one that’s been supplanted into your subconscious the most through advertisement. These companies aren’t spending billions of dollars on these things for no reason, they spend the money because they know it works.

The videos games on your phone, Netflix, and your favorite commercials all understand this process. They use a continuum loop that keeps your interest. This loop makes it almost impossible to not enjoy it, and to just want to see the next episode. When we’re up all night binging, our bodies actually want to go to sleep, but our “feelings” tell us to keep on watching.

The food industry is having the most success at this, and I write this to reiterate that our feelings aren’t us. Nor should we listen to our feelings just because we feel them. Many people wouldn’t be able to enjoy freedom today if they listened to their anger at times when it was high just because they felt it.

I believe this is the main reason societies were always given a moral compass in literature form. Whether that be the bible, the Koran, the 42 laws of MA’AT etc. Man always had the option to ask himself, “is what I FEEL like doing in alignment with this “divine” scripture?” If the answer was no, man would have to be strong enough to be better than how he felt. If the answer is yes, man was free to indulge. If all man ever did was go off of the way that he felt, society would be in complete chaos.  Feel like stealing? Steal. Feeling like running the red light? Run it. Laws have always been in place and will always need to be in place to help society be better than just the way they feel.

So i’m writing this, because I intend to tell you a few ways that this is directly being done through the food. Lets start with Atrazine.

Atrazine

In short, Atrazine is pesticide that is currently sprayed on over 80% of your crops across America. A chemical that is currently banned in over 75 countries around the world, but yet we still use it here in one of the worlds most dominate super powers. The first time I heard about Atrazine it was from a Harvard Graduate Biologist that is now a Biology professor at the University California named Tyrone Hayes. He brought forth information that suggested, that the chemical atrazine causes a dramatic reduction of Male Chromosomes at levels which are three times lower than what is currently appearing in our drinking water. Tyrone Hayes has been at war with Syngenta(the company that produces the chemical) ever since he was silenced after presenting what he found. Even though Syngenta themselves were the company that hired him to research it. Atrazine affects men negatively, by literally shrinking their gonads, or causing them to hormonally become women, but it also affects women, causing low estrogen levels and irregular menstruation. After Tyrone had given this chemical to frogs he noticed that it literary turned one in ten frogs male frogs into females. Tyrone B. Hayes, the Professor Of Integrative Biology states:

““These male frogs are missing testosterone and all the things that testosterone controls, including sperm. So their fertility is as low as 10 percent in some cases, and that is only if we isolate those animals and pair them with females,” he said. “In an environment where they are competing with unexposed animals, they have zero chance of reproducing.”

“The 10 percent or more that turn from males into females – something not known to occur under natural conditions in amphibians – can successfully mate with male frogs but, because these females are genetically male, all their offspring are male.”

Now are we to say that a chemical that literary converts Male frogs into Female frogs, and causes the male frogs to begin engaging in sexual activity with other male frogs has no effect on us? This is a chemical that we use 80 million pounds of a year here in the USA. A chemical banned in over 75 countries. Its in all of your water, and in the majority of you non-organic food. Heres his video below if you would like more info, but lets move on.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mP-6Gp5RbjQ

Soy

The first time I heard about the ill effects of Soy I was listening to an radio show featuring Dick Gregory in which he was the discussing the suspicions that begin to arise in him when he noticed that soy was suddenly popping up all over the ingredients list on the majority of conventional food products. In turn, he hired a woman that he paid a million dollars to spend a year researching the product and its effects on humans. Dick stated that after the three weeks he had gotten a phone call from the researcher who was in tears; weeping, and sobbing barely able to formulate a sentence. In a fit of depression and sadness she said to him “ I had been wondering why my daughter was a lesbian this entire time. And I am started to learn it was because I was feeding her soy milk since she was a child. “

Soy infant formula puts your baby’s health at risk. Nearly 20 percent of U.S. infants are now fed soy formula, but the estrogens in soy can irreversibly harm your baby’s sexual development and reproductive health. Infants fed soy formula take in an estimated five birth control pills’ worth of estrogen every day. Infants fed soy formula also have up to 20,000 times the amount of estrogen in circulation as those fed other formulas! Let the alone the direct links between soy and Brain Damage and Breast Cancer.

The consumption of Soy literary triggers the Aromatase Enzymes in the body to begin converting the male dominate hormone Testosterone into the female dominate hormone Estrogen. And as I already stated, a persons chemical and hormonal make up will affect their behavior. Just look at commercials for many pharmaceuticals that state that “ If you begin developing thoughts of suicide, stop taking immediately and contact your doctor”. In other words ” This medication can change your thoughts.” And had it not been for that fore warning, most would think those thoughts were genuine. What other thoughts are produced from many of the chemical laced GMO foods we eat everyday that no one is talking about?

Give a child processed sugar and chemically laced candy and watch their behavior immediately become affected. I’ve seen parents feed their children candy and then punish them for being overly hyper and not being able to sit down or be still. How backwards is that?

Here a few more chemicals with links to further research that we all consume daily that are literary turning male testosterone into estrogen, and female estrogen into testosterone.

BPA Plastic(Bisphenol A) – Anything you Consume that comes in plastic has BPA. BPA is an endocrine disruptor that mimics the effects of estrogen and interferes will all hormone levels, cell signaling systems, and genetic messages. 6 billion pounds of this is used a year.

Fluoride – Fluoride is found heavily in all of our tap water, tooth paste, salts, and almost 90% of our bottled water as well. Tooth Paste states that if you swallow a piece sized amount of fluoride you should call a doctor, yet we put it into our mouths to brush our teeth with it. Almost as if the mouth doesn’t absorb what we put into it through the walls of our skin into our blood stream. Ingesting fluoride does create hormone dysfunction, low testosterone, cardiovascular diseases, and cancer.

DioxinDioxins are a toxic byproduct of various industrial processes that are ingested in the fat of meats and dairy products. All of our conventional meat products and dairy products contain this chemical Dioxin, that decreases the sperm count, lowers testosterone levels, and raises estrogen levels in the body.

Lead, Mercury, Phthalates, Perchlorate, PFCs, Arsenic, and Glycol ethers are just a few more chemicals that we are willingly putting into our bodies each and every day that are literary reengineering our hormones – altering the way that we behave and think. I would advise anyone reading to do further research on these chemicals. Everyone has different levels of immunity, therefore some are much more susceptible to the effects of these chemicals than others, but we ALL are affected by them one way or another.

Which only leads me to finally ask.. What effect do you think these chemicals have on a developing fetus still growing in its mothers womb that has yet to fully develop its immune and endocrine systems? If a mother pregnant with a male child is consuming chemicals that are directly converting his testosterone into estrogen every single day that he is in the womb, what effect does this then have on the male child that is born? That’s a conversation that our society of today is probably too sensitive to have, but it’s something I want the readers to think about.

In closing, I don’t care if you’re a man or a woman we should all be protecting ourselves from things that chemically alter our minds and bodies. I’m not saying go vegetarian or vegan, I’m just saying that we should care about what we’re eating. If you’re going to eat meat, make sure you get it free ranged; free of the antibiotics and the hormones these animals are being pumped with that allow them survive in conditions unfit for anything to live in. Read your “ingredients” labels on everything you buy. If you can’t pronounce it, or if you don’t know what it is without doing a google search don’t eat it. Filter your water as well. All of these additives that you can’t pronounce or that you don’t know without a google search will alter thought, feeling, and behavior in some way.

I’ve noticed dramatic changes in both myself an many of my friends that applied this information. Before this journey I remember times when I would get “sad” at random – a random wave of depression if you will. Come to find out it wasn’t random at all; I just wasn’t as hormonally balanced as I am now. Nowadays I couldn’t tell you the last time I wasn’t happy. I’ve been emotionally consistent ever since I fully detoxed myself of the build up of these listed chemicals.

This is something we all can do. With the rise of the mental health conversations today we need to do more talking about the way the food we’re eating is directly affecting our mental health. The body, mind, and the spirit are all connected. The things that affect our bodies affect our minds, the things that affect our minds affect our spirits. There is no “spirituality” without physical health. Protect yourself.

Eddie Fews


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The 3 Factors That Impact Your Ability To Attract Women

Recently I was listening to an old Patrice O’Neal clip that I hadn’t heard in a while in which he was talking about the scale he and his friends decided to use to rate women to allow a more accurate rating of their physical beauty. His theory was that when using the 1-10 rating system no one really uses numbers 1-3. The lowest most will give a woman is a four and so this throws off the accuracy of the system; it becomes a 4-10 scale. As a result, he came up with the 1-30 scale. Basically women get broken down into three categories 1-10 is below average women, 11-20 is average women, 21-30 is beautiful women. So once you see a woman you put her in one of those categories and then you rate her amongst all women that would fit into the category. Once you get that number you divide it by three and that will give you  the accurate 1-10 rating for a woman. For example: Angelina Jolie would be in the beautiful women category, but when you measure her against ALL the beautiful women in the world where would she fit? A 22 or 23 maybe? Divide that by three and she is about a seven an a half at best.

Now whether you agree with the scale or not, it led to the inspiration for this article. I started thinking about how we as men could rate ourselves. What factors would contribute to our 1-30 rating? I came up with what I’ve found to be the three most important factors when it comes to attracting women. Three categories, rate yourself from 1-10 in each category, add the numbers up, divide it by three, and that will be your overall attractiveness rating.

It’s commonly said that you can attract someone 2 points higher of your 1-10 rating. Example: A Man thats an 8 can attract 10’s but it will require some effort. A man thats an 9 can attract 10’s with light effort, and a man thats a 10 can attract 10’s with little to no effort. But as I’ve commonly taught; a lot more goes into the quality of women you can attract that just what you look like. I know my share of average looking out of shape guys that consistently pull 8’s 9’s and 10’s, and thats because, they have a high rating due to the factors i’m going to touch on in just a second. 

Personal honesty is key here. All these factors can be improved. So when you are honest in the assessment of your rating, you’ll understand where to direct your energy to improve yourself, thus improving the quality of women you attract.

 

Category 1: Your Physical Attractiveness (Score yourself 1-10)

Now although a lot more goes into attracting women than your physical appearance it does play its role. None of us can help how we’re born,but there are many things we can do to improve our appearance. Things like properly grooming, developing our physique, dressing well, and taking care of our skin. A man with average facial features that’s well groomed, an in great physical shape is still pretty high on the scale. I’d go so far as to say a man with unattractive features that dresses well, smells good, is well groomed, and is in great physical shape can be as high as a seven on the 1-10 scale for physical attractiveness alone. Throw some good looks in the mixture and that guy can easily give himself a 9 or 10.

If you want to improve physical appearance it’s going to take sacrifice like everything else. What are you willing to give up to get the things you want? Processed fatty foods? Warm Water? Getting to bed early and getting more sleep? Getting a gym member and regularly making time in your schedule to go. We all intellectually know how to improve ourselves physically, but how many put aside instant gratification to do it?

Now let me say, I do believe this is the least important of the three categories that I’m listing here, but in no means should it be disregarded. It does play its role, and even if it played no role we should all be maximizing our potential. Do not make this a woman thing, make this a you thing. Desire to be the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.

Where do you score 1-10? Hold that number and add it up with the rest below.

 

Category 2: Mindset, Inner Game, Self Confidence (Score Yourself 1-10)

I’ve always taught guys three things about self confidence when it came to women.

1. A woman cares more about what you think of you, than she does about what she thinks of you.

2. A woman cares more about what you think of her, than she does about she thinks of you.

As men we often make the mistake of thinking that women are perfect. We put all the focus and energy on ourselves without taking into account the full spectrum of the person we’re interacting with. When a man approaches a woman he tends to ignorantly think that she’s not prone to the same anxiety, nervousness, and lack of conversational ability that he’s prone to. And so he thinks that if he is not successful in his approach than something must not be right with him. This is far from the truth. I’ve known women who’ve rejected men that they have liked simply because they got nervous, didn’t know what to say, and didn’t want to feel unhappy about having an unsuccessful social interaction. She cared more about what “he thought of her” than she cared about what she thought of him. I have also had several women tell me about men they didn’t find attractive as the man was approaching , that admittedly were won over after the approach by the mans swagger and confidence. If this was Tinder she would of swiped left on him immediately, but this was real life and in real life other factors play a role in a mans ability to attract women.

When you look in the mirror what do you see? Do you see what they think, or do you see what you think? Have you accepted yourself. Are you aware of what makes you great? What distinguishes you? What your potential is? Do you stand tall and erect with your head up? Do you believe in your ability to achieve all things? Do you see the Power in you?

I’ll tell you like a old school player that will still dating young attractive women told me “ I’m going to walk like a God, talk like a God, and a woman is going to respond to me in the only way a woman can respond to a God” It was that mindset and the power of his self-belief that led to his continuous success.

Your mindset is the character you play in this movie of life. It can be developed and it can be changed. Just as an actor becomes the character of the script through repetition of his lines and convincing himself over and over that he is the character in the film until it becomes real, you can do the same.

Our thoughts become our words, our words become our actions, our actions become our habits, our habits become our character and our character becomes our destiny.

Take control of your thoughts, tell yourself what you want to be as if you already are it. Tell yourself over and over, billions of times for months/years if it takes and you WILL become that thing.

On a scale of 1-10 how strong is your self belief and inner confidence? How confident are you when walking into a room? Rate yourself an add it to the number from category above and below.

 

Category 3: The Quality Of Your Intent (Score Yourself 1-10)

I had a friend named Alex who had moved here to New York City suddenly one day with the clothes on his back and two hundred dollars to his name. I wrote about him in one of my books “The Player Handbook”. All he knew was that he wanted to be an Actor and the place he lived wasn’t the proper environment for him to reach his goal. To make a long story short he lived with about fifteen different highly attractive women over the course of his 3 year stay here before finally getting the right gig and moving to Los Angeles. I remember when we were all hanging out with our group and one of my other friends asked him “ How do you do it? How do you get all these beautiful women to let you move in rent free?” Alex’s response was “ Women only like me because i’m good looking and I’m going for my shit. Well they really only like me because I’m going for my shit, Im just good looking and so I had to say it” We all laughed, but what he said was the raw truth. Alex had a 10 on quality of Intent scale. So even if he was a six on the looks scale, and an eight on the confidence scale, that would give him a twenty-four which would be an eight when divided by three. Meaning, he could he could attract 10’s with some effort.

So what is quality of intent you may think? It’s the energy at which you live your life with. It’s the how it’s not the “what”. As I’ve always taught, it’s not about what you do, it’s about how you do it. It’s not about what you say to women, it’s about how you say it. And the how will always come from your intent. How much intention are you living your life with? How many of your daily activities are done with true intention? It doesn’t matter if you’re playing video games all day, the question is why are you playing them? Are you playing them to kill time or because you have some goal in mind you’re trying to actualize? Are you practicing to become a Professional Gamer or Twitch Streamer like Fortnite player Ninja who’s intent led to him making $500,000 a month from playing a video game. I saw an interview with him in which he said “ I always just wanted to be the best. Every time I played it was because I wanted to be better than every one. I didn’t sleep. I stayed up all night playing because I wanted to be the best”. That was the quality of his intent and look where it got him? The quality of Alex’s intent caused him to leave home without much money and go to an unknown place to fulfill his dream.

How much of your time are you dedicating to fulfilling your desires with focused thought and intention? There should be no leisure time, unless it is pre decided with intent to allow yourself room to rest and recharge. If you’re hanging out with a girl, why are you doing it? And how does doing it serve your overall purpose and fulfillment? Are you in school without intent because you think that’s what you’re suppose to do? Are you working a Job just because it pays without an overall reason or goal in mind? That is wasted intention.

You should ONLY be thinking about or focusing on women when it’s time to pursue women through action. Anything outside of that is wasted thought and reduces value. The less I thought about women, the more women I had thinking about me. The more of your time that you spend in focused thought with full intention on being who you desire to be, the higher your quality of intent. The mind should never be wandering. If you are spending time thinking, it should be done with purpose, focus, and intent (visualizations, planning, setting goals etc). When not thinking you should be actively in pursuit of your desires with intent and discipline. The path of success in anything is narrow; so narrow, that most won’t make it, and this is why I feel this is the most important factor of the three.

How would you rate your current quality of intent on a scale of 1-10? How focused are you on creating the life for yourself that you desire? What percentage of your time is devoted to this? 10% gives you a 1 on the intent scale, 50% gives you a 5, 80% an 8 and so forth. Whats yours?

Conclusion

There it is.. Take each other your three numbers from each category, add them up, and divide that number by three. Thats your current rating on whats truly valuable on what makes a man attractive. Are you satisfied with it? Regardless of what it is may you not be satisfied. Maximize your potential. I teach about women a lot because the pursuit to reproduce is a driving force for success, but there is a lot more to life than attracting women. It is usually only when we are personally fulfilled that we will find ourselves in fulfilling relationships with the opposite sex. Take care of your physical(Category 1), master your mental (Category 2), and grow in your spiritual ( Category 3) and you will have fulfillment in both your love life and your personal life.

Thanks for Reading.

Eddie Fews


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The Testosterone Secret You Haven’t Been Told

I was reading an article about avoiding the common estrogen mocking chemical BPA(Bisphenol A) that 90% of us ingest daily in attempt to preserve testosterone, when I encountered a comment from a guy questioning why it appeared that people in poorer communities had more testosterone than he, when they are exposed to many more testosterone inhibiting chemicals due to poverty than he does. That was when I began to think on this myself because I agreed with his comment. All the testosterone inhibiting chemicals in the world that people from less wealthy circumstances encounter still wasn’t enough to keep them from having higher testosterone than people in upper class communities. But why?

In short.. it’s because they’re uncomfortable.

When one does the research on increasing testosterone levels what they’ll find is, the majority of non-diet related steps to increase the testosterone hormone involve getting uncomfortable. Things like high intense exercises, cold showering/ice baths, giving up porn/masturbation etc. All these things require one to give up “Pleasure” and comfort for testosterone. I personally take a freezing cold shower every single day and for the first few months it was one of the most uncomfortable experiences I had encountered in my life at the time. Now, I don’t even feel it. I’ve adapted and developed a natural edge in which I’m connected to the cold water. The thought of taking a warm shower is completely unappealing to me. I’ve tried and I immediately turn the water back to cold. The benefits of the cold shower far outweigh the pleasure and comfort of the warm shower. And this is kind of how it is for people in lower income communities.

Just as men who traditionally lived in the wild and had to learn how to hunt, maintain awareness, and defend themselves for survival; people in lower income communities have a similar experience . Too many mistakes in the wild could lead one to be mistaken a “prey” and potential “food” for a predator. In that same light, too many mistakes in “the hood” could give one the appearance of a free meal as well. There is an edge that has to be maintained, there is a certain vibe one has to adapt, and a level of getting “comfortable” with the “uncomfortable” that one must learn to stay alive.

The subconscious mind is programmed for survival. Its only job is to provide you with the motivation and desire necessary to keep you alive. Anything extra must be consciously chosen, ardently desired, and then persistent in by your conscious mind. You would have to make your own personal choice to make decisions to create and develop an edge that will assist in building testosterone. When you first jump into a cold shower the subconscious will SCREAM loudly for you to turn the water back warm, because you don’t need cold water on your skin to survive. So unless you have the discipline or a conscious desire greater than the influence of your subconscious you will indeed back out and turn the water back warm.

When one lives in a wealthy suburban area what subconscious need is there to motivate you to develop an edge outside of a conscious choice? The community knows one another, there’s little to no crime, the neighbors wave as your walking by, and so forth? If a person that has only known this type of community were to be thrown in the center of “The hood” the subconscious would scream loudly by giving you fear and anxiety as to say “ Get back to the suburbs!” Just as it would tell you to turn the water back warm after throwing yourself into a cold shower. But if you were to consciously choose to stay in the cold water and/or adapt to your new environment you would develop the edge that would generate the survival induced testosterone that the people in these areas tend to have.

Now, I don’t write this to say “ Go get comfortable in the hood to get more testosterone”. I write this for you to ask yourself – what comforts are normal for you that you get uncomfortable without could you give up to develop an edge that will lead to an increase in testosterone if desired? To gain anything most understand that we must give something up. If we want fire, we must give up some of our wood. What are you willing to give up for this?

I remember when I wasn’t as comfortable approaching women. I remember when I didn’t have the razor sharp edge that made it is as easy then as it is now. I remember when I had to plow through discomfort and mild anxiety and consciously choose to do it despite the emotions coming from the subconscious that said ” you don’t need to approach women to survive”. Just as I had to consciously choose to cold shower, and subconsciously adapt to a rougher neighborhood growing up. All these things were the building blocks that developed the edge that lead to the increased testosterone that I have today.

That edge will give you a swagger, a confidence and a self awareness that will make you happy, make women attracted to you, and make men respect you. Those that choose a life of comfort never quite experience the level respect that these others do.

Why do you think Conor McGregor is such a huge superstar? He grew up rough, that roughness gave him an edge, that edge triggered a generating of more testosterone, and all of that properly directed into a field he could succeed in ( UFC – Mixed Martial Arts) is the reasons millions of children and men all over the world want to emulate him today. You can’t find me a man without an edge that people directly want to emulate. They may want to emulate an edge-less mans work, but they’re never trying to emulate him. This is what the Alpha Males that all men tend to think they are today are made of.

You can try all the dietary tricks and take all the supplements you like to build testosterone, but it can also build on its own without these things when you consciously give up comforts and live your life on the edge.

Thanks for reading.

Eddie Fews


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