The 3 Factors That Impact Your Ability To Attract Women

Recently I was listening to an old Patrice O’Neal clip that I hadn’t heard in a while in which he was talking about the scale he and his friends decided to use to rate women to allow a more accurate rating of their physical beauty. His theory was that when using the 1-10 rating system no one really uses numbers 1-3. The lowest most will give a woman is a four and so this throws off the accuracy of the system; it becomes a 4-10 scale. As a result, he came up with the 1-30 scale. Basically women get broken down into three categories 1-10 is below average women, 11-20 is average women, 21-30 is beautiful women. So once you see a woman you put her in one of those categories and then you rate her amongst all women that would fit into the category. Once you get that number you divide it by three and that will give you  the accurate 1-10 rating for a woman. For example: Angelina Jolie would be in the beautiful women category, but when you measure her against ALL the beautiful women in the world where would she fit? A 22 or 23 maybe? Divide that by three and she is about a seven an a half at best.

Now whether you agree with the scale or not, it led to the inspiration for this article. I started thinking about how we as men could rate ourselves. What factors would contribute to our 1-30 rating? I came up with what I’ve found to be the three most important factors when it comes to attracting women. Three categories, rate yourself from 1-10 in each category, add the numbers up, divide it by three, and that will be your overall attractiveness rating.

It’s commonly said that you can attract someone 2 points higher of your 1-10 rating. Example: A Man thats an 8 can attract 10’s but it will require some effort. A man thats an 9 can attract 10’s with light effort, and a man thats a 10 can attract 10’s with little to no effort. But as I’ve commonly taught; a lot more goes into the quality of women you can attract that just what you look like. I know my share of average looking out of shape guys that consistently pull 8’s 9’s and 10’s, and thats because, they have a high rating due to the factors i’m going to touch on in just a second. 

Personal honesty is key here. All these factors can be improved. So when you are honest in the assessment of your rating, you’ll understand where to direct your energy to improve yourself, thus improving the quality of women you attract.

 

Category 1: Your Physical Attractiveness (Score yourself 1-10)

Now although a lot more goes into attracting women than your physical appearance it does play its role. None of us can help how we’re born,but there are many things we can do to improve our appearance. Things like properly grooming, developing our physique, dressing well, and taking care of our skin. A man with average facial features that’s well groomed, an in great physical shape is still pretty high on the scale. I’d go so far as to say a man with unattractive features that dresses well, smells good, is well groomed, and is in great physical shape can be as high as a seven on the 1-10 scale for physical attractiveness alone. Throw some good looks in the mixture and that guy can easily give himself a 9 or 10.

If you want to improve physical appearance it’s going to take sacrifice like everything else. What are you willing to give up to get the things you want? Processed fatty foods? Warm Water? Getting to bed early and getting more sleep? Getting a gym member and regularly making time in your schedule to go. We all intellectually know how to improve ourselves physically, but how many put aside instant gratification to do it?

Now let me say, I do believe this is the least important of the three categories that I’m listing here, but in no means should it be disregarded. It does play its role, and even if it played no role we should all be maximizing our potential. Do not make this a woman thing, make this a you thing. Desire to be the best you that you can be in all areas of your life.

Where do you score 1-10? Hold that number and add it up with the rest below.

 

Category 2: Mindset, Inner Game, Self Confidence (Score Yourself 1-10)

I’ve always taught guys three things about self confidence when it came to women.

1. A woman cares more about what you think of you, than she does about what she thinks of you.

2. A woman cares more about what you think of her, than she does about she thinks of you.

As men we often make the mistake of thinking that women are perfect. We put all the focus and energy on ourselves without taking into account the full spectrum of the person we’re interacting with. When a man approaches a woman he tends to ignorantly think that she’s not prone to the same anxiety, nervousness, and lack of conversational ability that he’s prone to. And so he thinks that if he is not successful in his approach than something must not be right with him. This is far from the truth. I’ve known women who’ve rejected men that they have liked simply because they got nervous, didn’t know what to say, and didn’t want to feel unhappy about having an unsuccessful social interaction. She cared more about what “he thought of her” than she cared about what she thought of him. I have also had several women tell me about men they didn’t find attractive as the man was approaching , that admittedly were won over after the approach by the mans swagger and confidence. If this was Tinder she would of swiped left on him immediately, but this was real life and in real life other factors play a role in a mans ability to attract women.

When you look in the mirror what do you see? Do you see what they think, or do you see what you think? Have you accepted yourself. Are you aware of what makes you great? What distinguishes you? What your potential is? Do you stand tall and erect with your head up? Do you believe in your ability to achieve all things? Do you see the Power in you?

I’ll tell you like a old school player that will still dating young attractive women told me “ I’m going to walk like a God, talk like a God, and a woman is going to respond to me in the only way a woman can respond to a God” It was that mindset and the power of his self-belief that led to his continuous success.

Your mindset is the character you play in this movie of life. It can be developed and it can be changed. Just as an actor becomes the character of the script through repetition of his lines and convincing himself over and over that he is the character in the film until it becomes real, you can do the same.

Our thoughts become our words, our words become our actions, our actions become our habits, our habits become our character and our character becomes our destiny.

Take control of your thoughts, tell yourself what you want to be as if you already are it. Tell yourself over and over, billions of times for months/years if it takes and you WILL become that thing.

On a scale of 1-10 how strong is your self belief and inner confidence? How confident are you when walking into a room? Rate yourself an add it to the number from category above and below.

 

Category 3: The Quality Of Your Intent (Score Yourself 1-10)

I had a friend named Alex who had moved here to New York City suddenly one day with the clothes on his back and two hundred dollars to his name. I wrote about him in one of my books “The Player Handbook”. All he knew was that he wanted to be an Actor and the place he lived wasn’t the proper environment for him to reach his goal. To make a long story short he lived with about fifteen different highly attractive women over the course of his 3 year stay here before finally getting the right gig and moving to Los Angeles. I remember when we were all hanging out with our group and one of my other friends asked him “ How do you do it? How do you get all these beautiful women to let you move in rent free?” Alex’s response was “ Women only like me because i’m good looking and I’m going for my shit. Well they really only like me because I’m going for my shit, Im just good looking and so I had to say it” We all laughed, but what he said was the raw truth. Alex had a 10 on quality of Intent scale. So even if he was a six on the looks scale, and an eight on the confidence scale, that would give him a twenty-four which would be an eight when divided by three. Meaning, he could he could attract 10’s with some effort.

So what is quality of intent you may think? It’s the energy at which you live your life with. It’s the how it’s not the “what”. As I’ve always taught, it’s not about what you do, it’s about how you do it. It’s not about what you say to women, it’s about how you say it. And the how will always come from your intent. How much intention are you living your life with? How many of your daily activities are done with true intention? It doesn’t matter if you’re playing video games all day, the question is why are you playing them? Are you playing them to kill time or because you have some goal in mind you’re trying to actualize? Are you practicing to become a Professional Gamer or Twitch Streamer like Fortnite player Ninja who’s intent led to him making $500,000 a month from playing a video game. I saw an interview with him in which he said “ I always just wanted to be the best. Every time I played it was because I wanted to be better than every one. I didn’t sleep. I stayed up all night playing because I wanted to be the best”. That was the quality of his intent and look where it got him? The quality of Alex’s intent caused him to leave home without much money and go to an unknown place to fulfill his dream.

How much of your time are you dedicating to fulfilling your desires with focused thought and intention? There should be no leisure time, unless it is pre decided with intent to allow yourself room to rest and recharge. If you’re hanging out with a girl, why are you doing it? And how does doing it serve your overall purpose and fulfillment? Are you in school without intent because you think that’s what you’re suppose to do? Are you working a Job just because it pays without an overall reason or goal in mind? That is wasted intention.

You should ONLY be thinking about or focusing on women when it’s time to pursue women through action. Anything outside of that is wasted thought and reduces value. The less I thought about women, the more women I had thinking about me. The more of your time that you spend in focused thought with full intention on being who you desire to be, the higher your quality of intent. The mind should never be wandering. If you are spending time thinking, it should be done with purpose, focus, and intent (visualizations, planning, setting goals etc). When not thinking you should be actively in pursuit of your desires with intent and discipline. The path of success in anything is narrow; so narrow, that most won’t make it, and this is why I feel this is the most important factor of the three.

How would you rate your current quality of intent on a scale of 1-10? How focused are you on creating the life for yourself that you desire? What percentage of your time is devoted to this? 10% gives you a 1 on the intent scale, 50% gives you a 5, 80% an 8 and so forth. Whats yours?

Conclusion

There it is.. Take each other your three numbers from each category, add them up, and divide that number by three. Thats your current rating on whats truly valuable on what makes a man attractive. Are you satisfied with it? Regardless of what it is may you not be satisfied. Maximize your potential. I teach about women a lot because the pursuit to reproduce is a driving force for success, but there is a lot more to life than attracting women. It is usually only when we are personally fulfilled that we will find ourselves in fulfilling relationships with the opposite sex. Take care of your physical(Category 1), master your mental (Category 2), and grow in your spiritual ( Category 3) and you will have fulfillment in both your love life and your personal life.

Thanks for Reading.

Eddie Fews


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Should Men Be Allowed A Cheat Day In Relationships?

This one will probably be met with several screw faces from the female supporters, but I’m going to be optimistic and offer a perspective that should speak to a few of you. The few with a mind that is open to at least discussing masculine ideas without becoming angry. The few who’ll find it easiest to get a man to want to commit to them long term in the first place. I’ve found in my personal life that the most attractive and confident women have a spirit of seeking to understand. They may not agree right away, but they don’t go touting their opinion easily. They understand that there is a difference within the psychology of a man and a woman and thus, they seek to understand the males way of thinking to better help them function in a union with one. The majority of these women just so happen to be in functional relationships, but perhaps that’s just a coincidence.

Today it’s very easy for a woman to say, “Well this is what I want and if he doesn’t like it then its on to the next one”, but how long does this mentality survive until you’ve worn yourself out through failed relationship after failed relationship and one finds themselves alone? It is the very “on to the next one” mentality that results in a man not feeling attracted to a woman anyway. I’ve wrote about this before. A man thrives off of feeling needed, so if you’re mentality is “On to the next one, I can do fine without a man, My feelings or the highway etc…” you will produce a vibe that  will subconsciously be a repellent to the opposite sex. He may stick around to enjoy the sex, the affection, and good times, but his eyes will continue to wander to a place in which he can feel that he is “needed”.

Women want to feel “wanted” and men want to feel “needed”. It is a thin line, but there is a difference between the two. Before I get into the topic let me also say that there are always exceptions to every rule. Every time I write something like this I get an email from a woman saying,“ Well I knew this guy that this didn’t apply to”. Of course you do. I’m speaking to the majority. If I wrote an article saying, “Men have ten toes” would you email me saying, “ Well I disagree. I knew someone who had 11 toes?”.

No.

So lets not do that here.

It is also true that men are being emasculated today. We’re dealing with some of the most emotional, not knowing what they want, tipping toeing men of all time. This is happening for several reasons that I will be tackling in my next article,“Why Have Men Become So Effeminate?”. Women are also being a lot more masculine, and consequently we’re dealing with some of the most aggressive, detached, and combative women of all time. So I understand that these two types will be the first to write this content off before they even try comprehend it. But my intent is only to speak to the true nature of masculinity, and not what masculinity has been marginalized into during the 21st century.

Now with that being said, this article is not written to encourage women to give their man a cheat day, its more so written to get women to understand a male’s way of thinking, his nature, and his emotions more than anything. You can do whatever you want with the information after that, but understanding one another should be pivotal. So I’m going to go into several aspects arguing my case, and if you can keep an open mind and put away what YOU think, and your opinions for a moment please continue. If you’re already turning up your nose and waiting to disagree, you can stop here and leave a comment disagreeing as if you read the entire thing and understand what I’m trying to say.

I’ll start by presenting this one fact: ‘A single human male produces enough sperm in two weeks to impregnate every fertile woman on the planet.

Would you or would you not agree that a creatures genetic make up has some impact an influence on what that creature does and that creature’s way of thinking? Surely a lion being born with claws and sharp teeth feels compelled to hunt animals for meat. Its teeth and digestive system aren’t made to digest grass, and so it hunts because of its biological make up . This isn’t some social construct. No one has to tell the lion that it’s suppose to hunt other animals. The lion knows instinctively that its job is to hunt because of the cards that it has been dealt. So, what would possessing enough sperm cells to impregnate every fertile woman on the planet every two weeks do to a man on an instinctual level when our bodies naturally  produce hormones that trigger us to want to reproduce? Nothing happens for no reason in nature. It is our hormones and our emotions that trigger our actions.

For example, when a man or woman becomes angry it is because their bodies are producing a chemical called catecholamine, and it is this chemical that triggers the motivation to act out in anger. Its not just a mental thing.  It’s a hormonal cause for the emotion that proceeds before the action. So in that same light, how does a woman only being able to have one child a year influence her instinctual behavior? Her traditional nature would encourage her to find one suitable partner with strong genes so that she could give birth and maintain the population of the planet. Nature didn’t create sex so that we could have pleasure, nature made sex pleasurable so that we would reproduce. If sex were painful our subconscious would instinctively shy us away from the act.

So what does a man and woman’s biological nature tell you about the way that we feel compelled to act instinctively? A man’s nature – producing enough sperm to impregnate every female on the planet; a woman’s nature – only being able to produce one child per year? Which would be the one that would be more concerned with finding a commitment with one person? And before anyone says humans have free will… sure we do, but nature still plays its role. This is why you consistently hear women saying, “All men are the same” and men saying ,“ All women are the same”. Surely we each have our own personality and things that makes us unique, but we all possess the same nature. Just as all lions are the same, and all dolphins are the same. They each have unique attributes, but when you boil them down to their nature they each do the same exact things.

And this brings me to my next point:

When a male and female copulate,hug, kiss or touch, a chemical called oxytocin is produced. Oxytocin is a bonding chemical, and this is what creates the romantic feelings we feel for one another. The body begins to crave the feel good chemical oxytocin and this creates the emotion which is responsible for attachment. The most oxytocin is produce when a woman breast is being sucked on, so if any ladies out there are with a no good man that you can’t seem to get away from; keep the guy away from your breast. This is the same chemical produced when a woman is breast feeding that intensifies the bond and connection between a mother and her child. Now, did you that know oxytocin is produced by both man and woman, but testosterone nullifies oxytocin? And the more testosterone a man has the more difficult it will be for him to be attached to any one person. The chemical responsible for attachments begins to be nullified within him. You don’t just love someone dearly because you love them, you love them because they’ve succeeded at producing a sufficient amount of feel good chemicals in your body that created the attachment. This can’t be forced and/or manufactured. A man can’t just love you the way you love him because you want him to. You have to succeed at producing high enough levels of oxytocin within him that can’t be all nullified because of his testosterone. And the more testosterone he has, the more difficult this will be. Which is why the most alpha males(men with the highest testosterone counts) sleep with the most women and have the most difficult time with commitment. He just doesn’t feel it the way that you do. So a mans ability to want to stick around with you after sex isn’t just based on how soon or how late you have sex with him. It is based on how much oxytocin you’ve succeeded at getting him to produce before, and during the act. You wait too long and see him too infrequently, and he will have produced enough testosterone to get rid of it- and the attachment. Too soon, and there simply just isn’t enough yet.

Now let me just say that it is possible to make a man produce enough oxytocin in one day if you’re skilled, and if things line up with the other factors in play, but that’s another article altogether. I will elaborate more on this in my book for woman on how to successful seduce the man they want, but what I will say is that the less sperm a man is carrying over an extended period of time the less testosterone he will have. So if he has masturbated or had sex several days before meeting you and you’re skilled, he won’t have the testosterone available to nullify the oxytocin. Hence why older men are more willing to enter a commitment because a mans testosterone count lowers as he gets older. This is not something men are aware of. For the most part we’re just on autopilot responding to our nature. So my question is, why must men be held to the same commitment standards as women when we’re not even capable of feeling the same things that women are feeling for us biologically? Should a man born without sight  be forced to pass an eye exam lest he be cast away?

Why is it that the majority of mammals on the planet exist within a system that contains few males and many females? In a cow pen there is one bull, and a bunch of cows. Lion prides contain one lion and several lioness. In a herd of deer there is usually one alpha male deer that is responsible for impregnating 90% of the females in the herd. Even in a chicken coop there is usually one or two roosters( if the coop is big enough) and a bunch of hens and the one rooster is responsible for fertilizing all the eggs. What is that telling us about the nature of male creatures? Perhaps just more coincidences.

Lets dive into commitment from a male point of view:

When a woman meets a confidant alpha male who naturally attracts a lot of women what is the usual dynamic? Typically the Alpha male will not be looking to settle down with any one particular girl in the early years of his life, and so he will be developing  non-exclusive relationships with multiple women. Because the women like him, they will put up with it for a short time before pressuring him to commit to them exclusively over all of the other girls that he’s seeing. He’ll do one of two things: If he likes her he’ll do his best to comfort her and assure her that he does have feelings for her but he’s still not ready. In other words, he hasn’t been worn down enough.  Now if he doesn’t like her, he’ll just cut her off and/or make it clear to her that it’s not going to happen and she’ll walk away or stay until she finds someone willing.

All men who have high levels of success with women have been confronted with this dynamic multiple times. Often from two or three women all at once. We know that we chase women initially to lock in their interest and to win their compliance, and then she chases us after that to maintain our investment in her and to win our commitment. Commitment is almost never actually something that WE as alpha males want. Its something that we give to our women if we value them enough over time. If we had it our way, we would have several women who commit to us that we don’t actually commit to. And this is usually what’s going on. The majority of quality women that I know tell me they don’t feel comfortable sleeping with more than one man at a time. And so they’ll be committing to men in non- committed relationships anyway. This is all just due to their nature if their nature is intact; since a woman  can only carry the child of one man at a time. Men on the other hand are able to create thousands of children a year if we have the availability. And so a man’s natural and biological feelings will be in alignment with what his biological potential is. Because most women don’t feel this desire to their core, they can’t accept the fact that we legitimately do. The majority of quality men I know are all sleeping with multiple women until they find one suitable enough to build something with.

Ask a woman why hasn’t she had sex with a thousand attractive men yet? And she’ll say something like “  That’s gross, or I respect myself and I won’t just sleep with anyone”. Ask a guy why he hasn’t had sex with a thousand women yet and he’ll tell you that he just hasn’t had the time to, or hasn’t found  that amount of attractive women willing to sleep with him.

So if commitment to monogamy is something that we didn’t even want, but we gave to the woman we love as a reward for putting up with enough of our nonsense, should we not be allowed a cheat day as a reward to us for going against our nature by entering a committed relationship once every blue moon?

What women have to understand is that entering a committed relationship is a lot more simple for them. Women are turning down dozens of men every single day that are trying to sleep with them. So once they enter a relationship they don’t have to do anything new. They only have to continue turning down men same way they were doing before entering the commitment. Every day of a man’s life he is trying to get women to sleep with him either directly or indirectly. That’s our life. So once we enter a commitment we have to perform an action that is the complete opposite of the reality that we live every single day. We’re the only ones that have to struggle with taking up a new practice and a new behavior. The women, for the most part, get to remain the same, because after all, the commitment was something that she wanted. So she’s getting something that she wants, that is congruent with her daily behavior anyway. Its like getting paid to brush your teeth, take a shower, and then commute to work. You’ll do it whether you get paid or not, so to get paid for it is a double and unrealistic bonus. Imagine your boss saying “I’ll give you a two hundred dollar bonus on every check if you eat dinner when you get off work.”. Now of course you don’t have to, but you’re likely to do it anyway, so its easy money.

When people go on a diet, they reward themselves with a cheat day because they’ve successfully been able to commit to a new lifestyle that went against what they were used to every day of there life prior. So in that same light, why shouldn’t men be allowed a cheat day because we’ve successfully been able to commit to a new lifestyle that went against what we were used to everyday of our life prior? Why can’t our women say “ Wow.. You’ve successfully went against your biological nature and motivation to populate the earth and remained with one woman for a year. Go have a cheat day baby. “  Hell, if a woman would do something as simple as saying, ” Thank you for being faithful” it would make a world of difference in how her man felt about staying strong and honoring the commitment.

The modern day, new age feminist will tell you that monogamy is a social construct, and that is a lie. Monogamy for women is a biological construct. It’s embedded in their nature and their biological potential. Once again, sex wasn’t created for us to have pleasure, pleasure is just the emotional impetus so that we will have sex and procreate. Third wave feminism is atheism. You can’t believe in a higher power and think that our biological natures weren’t created with a purpose. But shout out to all of my feminists. Pardon me. This article isn’t for you.

So I want to wrap this up by reiterating that I am not encouraging women to run and tell their boyfriend “ go have a cheat day”, your feelings should matter as well. But what we’re not going to do is coddle childish emotions that aren’t validated by anything other than more emotion, and make decisions based off of that. The discussion can be had, perhaps your man is over that stage of his life, perhaps his T count isn’t where it used to be, and he’s had his fun already. I just think that we should all strive to understand one another a lot more.

In the eleventh chapter of Think and Grow Rich, Napoleon Hill said “ The woman who understand a man’s nature and tactfully caters to it, need have no fear of competition from other women. Men may be “giants” with indomitable will-power when dealing with other men, but they are easily managed by the women of their choice.” And I completely agree with this statement. Its easy to say “only an insecure woman would go for something like this” and while an insecure woman may go for this out of necessity, a woman with the ultimate confidence may be willing to allow it because she understands.

I always tell women that men rule on the front end, we are the conscious mind and women are the subconscious mind. The subconscious is responsible for 80% of our thoughts and activity, but the thing is, the conscious mind doesn’t even know the subconscious mind is operating. A woman that understands her man and seeks to provide him with what he needs will rule her man. And the beauty of it all is, he won’t even have the slightest idea of whats going on. The insecure woman is controlled by her man, because she is trying to control him on the front end. The conscious end. Leave that to him, let him think he’s ruling.  He will feel a lot more comfortable with opening up and revealing his true feelings to you that way. The truly confident woman allows her man to have that 20% front end; the small battle, because she knows that ultimately she is ruling from behind the scenes; responsible for 80% of his activity. The women that get a thorough grasp on this, will never be short on a man that’s willing to commit to her and give her his everything.

For anyone further interested in an example of this topic you can check out this couple from Brooklyn, New York who have allowed two additional women into the relationship and are sharing one man between them three. The man and his first wife have been together for 17 years, the two other women have been with him and his wife for 11 years. How many of you have been with one person consistently for 5 years? And i’m not talking about breaking up and getting back together years later. I’m talking about a strong consistent five years. They’re all attractive women who could easily have a man to themselves if they truly wanted to. The women don’t sleep with each other, they don’t do threesomes, and there is not a sign of low self esteem insight. You can check that out here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9XaRjpjdui8

Thanks for reading.

Eddie Fews


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11 Things Rich People Do That Poor People Don’t

Although my dating and social development material is necessary for personal growth, I do want to make a point to begin writing about money. Money allows us to date, money affords us greater freedom to be creative, and money allows us to support a family. I recently ran into some research by way of Author Thomas Corley, who documented the daily habits of 233 wealthy people and 128 of those less fortunate for five years. Thomas Corley states that it is not just about what’s going on in business that allow some to build wealth,  it is also their daily habits and activities that are responsible for the reason some are wealthy and some aren’t.

Before I divulge into the research let me just say that there is no guarantee that if you do all these things you will become rich. Nor are these habits all that these people are doing to become rich, but I do believe it’s obvious that the more characteristics you share with the rich the higher your chances of being rich. If you did everything Kobe Bryant did on and off the basketball court, there’s no guarantee you would be as good as him, but you would be a lot better than most. So here are a few things rich people do differently than poor people.

1. 80% of wealthy make Happy Birthday calls vs. 11% of poor.

Anyone familiar with the law of attraction understands that you reap what you sow. Those that go out of their way to “give” are always “given to.” Even if that giving is just warm feelings of appreciation. A smile for someone else today could turn into a dollar for you tomorrow. Money is energy; you give energy helpful to others and you get energy helpful to you.

2. 70% of the wealthy eat less than 300 junk food calories per day. 97% of poor people eat more than 300 junk food calories per day.

Although health is wealth, we are also what we eat. A clean diet produces clean thoughts. A poor diet produces a poor life. There was a time in which people spent 70% of their income on making sure they had access to quality food. Food is our fuel; the better our fuel the better we function, the better we function the more we can accomplish.

3. 23% of wealthy gamble. 52% of poor people gamble.

Do you spend more time sitting around hoping to get lucky or putting in the time, energy, and effort to create your own luck? Although gambling can be fun and entertaining amongst those with self discipline, the wealthy to tend to look for areas with a higher probability for a ROI when using their money for the purpose of getting money.

4. 81% of wealthy maintain a to-do list vs. 19% for poor.

An organized thinker has an organized life. One that keeps track of their money always has money, just as one that keeps track of their daily activities tend to get more done than those that don’t. The more you get done the more wealth you can create.

5. 63% of wealthy parents make their children read 2 or more non-fiction books a month vs. 3% for poor.

If a man doesn’t grow mentally his pockets do not grow financially. When we educate ourselves we increase our capacity to create for others. The more we create for others the more will be given to us by others.

6.  88% of wealthy read 30 minutes or more each day for education or career reasons vs 2% for poor.

I want to connect 5 and 6 because I find these numbers to be alarming. Just 2 and 3 percent of those that aren’t rich are actively reading educational material? 30 minutes isn’t at all much; many of us spend 30 minutes day dreaming about things we won’t remember everyday.  By turning that time into just 30 minutes of reading, wealth can be added to our lives.

7. 6% of wealthy say what’s on their mind vs. 69% for poor.

I was always taught that the more you know the less you’ll say. The rich spend more of their time showing you what they know as opposed to injecting their opinion  and talking about what they know. Actions speak louder than words; actions pay more than words as well.

8. 6% of wealthy watch reality TV vs. 78% for poor.

TV isn’t just entertainment. We are all products of our diets. What we put in our mouth, what we listen to with our ears, what we watch with our eyes, and so forth.  Most reality TV Stars aren’t what you would call rich or wealthy. If we want riches and wealth we must watch those with wealth and listen to those with wealth. We become like that which we surround ourselves with.

9. 44% of wealthy wake up 3 hours before work starts vs. 3% for poor.

Early bird gets the worm? You’ll have more than the person you are doing more than. The earlier you rise the more you can accomplish.

10. 63% of wealthy listen to audio books during commute to work vs. 5% for poor people.

We can spend our time being entertained or we can spend our time learning. It is often said that smart phones are making us dumb, but this is not true. The way we use smart phones is what’s making us dumb. Are we using it an empowerment tool or as an escape from a life we are not comfortable with?

11. 84% of wealthy believe good habits create opportunity luck vs. 4% for poor.

This ties back into the gambling one above. Wealth is created by good habits just as health is created by good habits. The more good we put out the more good we will draw back in. When we find someone thats deemed “lucky” most don’t know that they often take part in a lot of healthy habits privately that attract their luck.

In closing, character is both defined by what we do when people are watching and when people are not. Those with the strongest character tend to have the strongest capacity to attract that which they want. It’s not always wealth, as everyone doesn’t have desire to be wealthy. But we should all have a desire to be the best us that we can be. Improving in the areas of life that we value so that we can increase our contribution to society. We weren’t created to be drones staring at lit up cell phones looking for entertainment. We were created to serve and be served by others. And the better our service, the more we will reap from those which we serve.

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Dating & Social Development Coach ‘Eddie Fews


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