You Don’t Have It Because You Don’t Deserve It

 I’ve began to notice that everyone has a poverty like mentality when it comes to a particular area of their lives. There are poor men and women everywhere that are victims of thoughts that keep them enslaved to their conditions. Think poverty, talk poverty, and you will manifest poverty in your actions. Think wealth/abundance, talk wealth, and you will manifest actions that’ll lead to wealth. For many this happens unconsciously because they were raised by poor/wealthy families that have lead them into the thinking pattern they have today. So they go on producing and accepting having or not having.

So what poor mentality am I talking about ?

If love/sex were coins, many of you men would be homeless, strung out on the floor, shaking your coffee cups, and begging for change. It’s pitiful honestly; I see the tweets, the statuses, facebook comments etc. I almost want to shake some of you guys up so y’all can come to your senses. We’re idolizing and worshiping our women from a point of inferiority. I have no problem putting a woman on a pedastol, but I must first secure my position on my own pedastol. This isn’t fan telling a rockstar how amazing they are. This is a rockstar telling another rockstar that they like them too. Any coincidence that most celebrities date other people in their industry? They’re idolized by almost everyone else.But the worse part about the analogy I started this paragraph off with is most men don’t even realize that that’s how they are seen by every woman they idolize.

Would you date a homeless woman who sits around begging all day? No. There is nothing she could do to get you to do so. She could call you handsome and compliment you all day long but it just wouldn’t happen. Mainly because she hasn’t taken care of herself yet, so how could she possibly have anything to offer you? In terms of self wealth and value, a lot of our men have not taken care of themselves. Women are going after each other now. They’re “independent”, they don’t need us, because we aren’t offering anything.

If you guys want to get up off the floor and dust yourselves off its time to know what you deserve. Anyone that has anything, felt or feels like they deserve what they have. Even a spoiled brat kid with a million toys that wants more feels like he’s deserving of another one. So when he approaches his parents for a new one, he communicates to them from a deserving position. This is the same position you must come from when you approach, speak, or comment on women.

Everything you do must say ” I deserve you.. and I came to find out if you deserve me “

You can even turn this into a practice on your daily travels. Every time you see a woman you find attractive whether on Facebook or in person say to yourself ” I deserve you.. “. This is how you will begin to train your thoughts to feel worthy when you communicate with a woman you find attractive. You can even apply this same mentality to that new Porsche you have your eyes on. When you see that new car, that house or job you want tell yourself ” I deserve you”. After enough repetition you will be one step closer to attracting the things you deserve.

I was always taught that I can have anything that I truly feel I deserve. It’s more than just saying it, it’s believing it, but saying it is where it starts. Our thoughts become our words, our words become our actions, our actions become our habbits, our habbits become our character, and our character becomes our destiny. Let’s stop begging and start attractive the things we believe we deserve.

Peace & Love

Eddie Fews


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The Most Seductive Emotion A Man Can Attract Women With

I had just got through watching a Stand-up comedy performance by the great Patrice O’Neal(R.I.P) in which he reminded me of something I’ve been doing subconsciously with women that has allowed me to become this successful as a seducer. He had gotten to a point in the show in which he asked the women in the audience how they would keep their boyfriends/husbands happy if suddenly they woke up without a pussy. The women from the audience screamed ” Anal, Blow jobs, handjobs etc.” all actions related to sexual pleasure. He then made a point that this is the reason men view women as sexual objects; because thats the only effort they take in relating to men. He goes ” None of the women said they’d learn to play video games, tell better stories, bring another woman into the bed etc. ” He goes on to say women have bored him so much that he only has sex with them to have a memory to masturbate to later – ” I’ve been jerking off in the shower so long I’m surprised a baby hasn’t crawled out the drain yet.. But after all women just want to be desired but they just don’t know how to make men desire them. And most men lose the desire they once had after 6 months in a relationship. I instantly went into my mental file cabinet and began reliving all of the moments in which I preyed upon a weak spot located within the feminine nature of almost every woman on the planet. Awareness of this weakspot could completely revolutionize the dating and seduction game; but I trust our readers at Way Of The Player and I trust that you will use what I am about to reveal to you with extreme caution.

I had left this part out of the story I told in my last article ( Stop Lying To Women) for personal reasons, but I figured what the hell;

I’ll do this for the readers.

So once I revealed the truth to my last girlfriend in my bedroom, we talked for a bit, but she had grew incredibly distance toward me. At her request I called her a taxi and she began walking toward the door. As I watched her walk down my hallway, the visual of her amazing ass and sexy legs walking away had turned me on immensely. I caught up with her at my living room where I sat on the sofa staring at her with sexuality and a bit of lust lingering in my eyes, as she stood up waiting for the cab to beep its horn to call her outside. I threw my hands around her waist, looked her in the eyes, and began expressing to her how badly looking at her was turning me on. I said something like ” You have no idea how bad I want to have sex with you right now” all while caressing her around the waist. I followed up with mores statements of desire as I watched a woman who was once disappointed and angry with turn into an helpless female begging me to tear her clothes off of her body.

And this is exactly what Patrice O’Neal was talking about toward the end up his performance. ” Women just want to be DESIRED”. Women do their hair, paint there nails, wear make up etc. because they WANT TO BE DESIRED.

All over the world there are men and women living together who are supposed to be in relationships. The only issue is, married couples have become more like roommates than actual lovers. The wife spends her time her one room and the husband spends his time in another. They just can’t seem to get it to work which is why the western society divorce rate is at an all time high of 55%. Women want to be desired and a man wants to desire his woman. But there seems to be a gap between actually making this thing work.

If you are going to succeed at using a woman’s need to be desired to be more seductive it first has to come from an authentic place. If you still see women as innocent, delicate creatures who don’t have wild sexual fantasies this isn’t going to work. The majority of women aren’t innocent and they aren’t pure, they just pretend they are because our culture judges them for anything else.

Women have an undying need to want to be desired. When you learn to have a genuine sexual desire for the women you want to seduce you’ll have more women than you can count.

Eddie Fews


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